Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Son of Growing Up Christmas


Beachmas! Here's Cullen enjoying the ocean this past Saturday, with Cheryl's parents who are visiting from St. Louis. Perhaps you will consider joining us next Christmas? But there's no guarantees... for example, it's already back to a wintery 50 degrees or so today.

Back to more traditional considerations...
God was gracious to us, as he has clearly been family-wide, giving us many presents to open even though we made modest plans. And I didn't have my first laptop till I was 32 years old. Cullen has one at 16 months!


And I'm still saving up for my own helicopter. But not Cullen... he has his own helicopter and heliport.

And let's celebrate the New Year while we're at it, by reflecting on the changes a year brings.

Below: Cullen with several gifts of the past that keep on giving...


Yet can you believe this is the same boy a year ago, when he first received this gift?



It would be corny, I guess, to say that Cullen is the true gift that keeps on giving. Or that the Lord is the giver who keeps on giving. But both those ideas would be correct. We're a very blessed family.

And that includes all of us, doesn't it?

Monday, December 22, 2008

Cullen Checks In

Cullen is quietly awaiting Christmas. His Grandma and Grandpa from St. Louis are coming to visit, which he doesn't fully realize yet - he'll be very surprised when he wakes up from his afternoon nap on Christmas day.

So what's there do around here? Well, you don't need TV when you have your very own whippet zoo...


Nor do you need a TV when you have a light sabre!


It is this father's conviction that every child needs his own light sabre. If not a real one (perhaps when he's a little older) at least an imaginary one for now. There's much to learn: proper care and handling, safety features, etc...


But as always, with great power comes great responsibility!

Friday, December 19, 2008

Seriously Now (Jesus, Narrow Doors, and Money)

Yesterday I enjoyed with a friend a Chinese buffet. The most comprehensive and classy Chinese buffet I've ever experienced, by the way, and all on the cheap.

My friend's fortune cookie told him, "Keep following the narrow path for now." We found this funny, if that's the right word, since Jesus basically said, "Follow the narrow path and don't ever get off it, or you'll end up in utter and eternal darkness" (see Luke 13:22-30).

Well, my mind has been on serious matters this past week. So I recognize this post isn't for everybody. But I hope you will give it your time.

The other morning I woke up thinking about the nation's economy (who hasn't?). And I pondered God's plan (who hasn't?). I thought about how different God's priorities are than ours, and how Christians and others just don't handle prosperity well. And then, later, I read one of the many times Jesus addressed money and possessions:

"Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also" (Matthew 6:19-21).

And then:

"No one can serve two masters, for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and money [mammon]" (v.24).

And then, finally, I read the following in an excellent commentary on Matthew by Craig Blomberg (a go-to guy for all things gospels). This was published nearly two decades ago. Now I warn you, in blogging terms, these two paragraphs are going to seem long. But they are worth it!

Blomberg is commenting on the phrase "no one can serve two masters."

Against those who might protest that they can accumulate both spiritual and earthly treasures, Jesus replies that they have only two options. They must choose between competing loyalties. "Master" suggests a slaveowner who required total allegiance. People could not serve two masters in the way in which people today often work two jobs. "Money" is more literally mammon, referring to all of a person's material resources. Of course, many people do try to cherish both God and mammon, but ultimately only one will be chosen. The other will be "hated," if only by neglect...

Many perceptive observers have sensed that the greatest danger to Western Christianity is not, as is sometimes alleged, prevailing ideologies such as Marxism, Islam, the New Age movement or humanism but rather the all-pervasive materialism of our affluent culture. We try so hard to create heaven on earth and to throw in Christianity when convenient as another small addition to the so-called good life. Jesus proclaims that unless we are willing to serve him wholeheartedly in every area of life, but particularly with our material resources, we cannot claim to be serving him at all.

Jesus' words were published in 60 AD and Blomberg's in 1992. They deserve consideration today, wouldn't you agree?

Thursday, December 11, 2008

Growing Up Christmas



And now I ask all readers to share their favorite Christmas memories. And if you are a Christian I ask, in addition, whether you think the giving and exchanging of gifts detracts from celebrating the birth of Christ.

For as I reflect on my Christmas memories, I would say that the first ones that come to mind involve presents. In particular, I recall the Christmas in which there so many presents that my little boy brain could hardly take it all in. Of course, I since learned that my childhood home was half the size that I thought it was, so feel free to cut these memories down to size.

On that particular Christmas, I received this:


You see, I played with Star Wars figures back when "Episode IV" was the only episode. This was the late 1970s, before many of you were born. But I didn't know a toy like this even existed - a Millenium Falcon (Han Solo and Chewie's spacecraft). And to believe that I got it for Christmas - amazing!

And I think that amazement is why that particular Christmas was so striking to me. I somehow viewed our family as not having all that much money, not able to get the latest and the greatest stuff. I don't know why I thought this, exactly, but I did. And so this particular Christmas morning brings to mind feelings of happiness and surprise, not greed and entitlement.

I just want to also note that this particular, surprising Christmas was also one when our entire family was together - which at that time was 5 kids. This was before those older siblings of mine left home for distant galaxies. But then, eventually, new memories were created... from times when younger readers of this blog actually existed:

Okay, so now it's your turn. What are your favorite memories?

Wednesday, December 3, 2008

Calling All Shomos - The Secret Shomo Gift Exchange!

This important announcement is for the entire Shomo family.

"Shomo family" includes anyone who is a Shomo, was a Shomo, married a Shomo, and children of Shomos. In other words, you - yeah, you.

Welcome to the first annual Secret Shomo Gift Exchange! This is a way to exchange gifts even though our family has gotten very, very big. It's like Secret Santa, but better. It's...

Secret Shomo.

To participate, you must respond by the end of the day this Friday, December 5.

These are the rules:

1. To be eligible, you must be 18 or over. However, those under 18 may participate if their parents take ultimate responsibility.
2. The Secret Shomo Gift Exchange coordinators will randomly draw names. No one else will know whose name you have.
3. You may buy your Shomo one gift or several smaller gifts, but please don't spend over $25. It's the thought that counts.
4. To help facilitate appropriate gift-giving, please create a wishlist on Amazon.com or send some suggestions to me via email (which will be forwarded to your Secret Shomo). Gifts do not necessarily have to be chosen from the list, but the lists will provide ideas.
5. Your gift must be postmarked by Thursday, December 18, to insure that your Shomo receives his or her gift by Christmas day.
6. Do not do anything that will give away whose name you have!

This will be a lot of fun. There are currently around 30 eligible "Shomos".

You may post your questions in the comments section, but more importantly...

Respond now to confirm that you'll take part!

Monday, December 1, 2008

Early Results Are In

Here are the first fruits of the new camera (and a look at Cullen's haircut). The last one is my favorite, that is Cullen asking to be put to bed :-) So long red-eye, adios out-of-focus...

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Thanksgiving Day 2008

Happy Thanksgiving!
"Oh give thanks to the Lord, for he is good" (Psalm 107:1).

Cheryl and I are enjoying a quiet day. She'll be baking some pies, and we'll be enjoying time with friends this afternoon - a wonderful and hospitable family from our church.

Cullen, meanwhile, has been happily playing. He's been enjoying that Tonka truck he was given for his birthday, and we also bought him a little dumptruck that carries his blocks. He definitely needed some new toys, and trucks are a big hit these days. For what it's worth, he likes to throw trucks also.

We'll miss the Shomo Side over Thanksgiving and Christmas... please come visit in the spring (or sooner)! If it's any incentive, let me remind me that even though it occasionally snows down here it doesn't stick... Forecast for today is sunny and 59 degrees.

Friday, November 21, 2008

Don't Tell Cheryl, But...

Forecast for Virginia Beach from weathercentral.com.

Don't tell Cheryl, but it's snowing in Virginia Beach today. I tried to take a picture but the camera objects, and refuses to do it. Our camera has always wanted Cheryl's approval, and I suspect this is why it takes her side on issues like this.

I've heard rumors of snow in this area before, but didn't think it would happen here. Especially in light of global warming...

Friends and family who associate the word "beach" with "Pacific Beach" or "La Jolla Cove" in San Diego can now understand that there are a few slight distinctions between where we live now and where I lived then!


Wednesday, November 19, 2008

First Haircut






No more "Cullen The Longshanks" -- 15 month old Cullen had his first haircut today, courtesy of our friend Amy, who did the deed in a spare room at the church. As you might notice, Cullen wasn't happy about the experience, but in his defense he is not feeling well from a couple vaccines he got yesterday. It's not a dramatic difference, I just wanted the back cleaned up a little...it needed it but the curls are gone :( I think it was almost as traumatic for me as it was for him! And thanks to another friend Alice we have photos of this momentous occasion... I forgot my camera (which is not hard to do considering it is a real pain to use). I have good camera news though, I am getting a DSLR for Christmas and I am so excited!!! The photos on our blog should definitely improve.

Tuesday, November 18, 2008

Who Goes There


Blog activity is low in the family realm these days, I notice (except Karen, who's keeping the dream alive). Here's another picture from our trip to the Northeast, sent by Cullen's Grandpa Jim.


Saturday, November 15, 2008

Best of the Best

These are some of the best family pictures from our trip. We have more to share, but didn't want to miss out on posting these. I'm taking a personal privilege and posting my favorite scene first - Cullen and Dad, celebrating the best season of all in the beautiful Northeast!




Here's Cullen and Mom:



The family:


Two grandmas (one great) and Cullen:

These are certainly the best of times!

Saturday, November 8, 2008

Meet the Brackins

We are enjoying northern New Jersey right now, where we are staying with our good friends the Brackins. This is Cullen and Judah:


Chatting between poses:


An Autumn walk:


Cullen and Judah's Dad:

When we prepared for this trip, I thought it was for the sake of us adults, and hopefully Cullen would do okay. I think I had it backwards. God had special plans for Cullen!


Friday, November 7, 2008

Political Hopes

To round out election week, allow me to direct you to an article that summarizes well my thoughts concerning the election of Barack Obama. It is by David Brooks, whom I commended earlier this week, and it is in today's New York Times. (How's that for reaching across party lines?)

I should note that I ran across this column when visiting New York City today, to see friends from my days in the Metro New York Presbytery. Some great guys.

Brooks writes:

I have dreams. I may seem like a boring pundit whose most exotic fantasies involve G.A.O. reports, but deep down, I have dreams. And right now I’m dreaming of the successful presidency this country needs. I’m dreaming of an administration led by Barack Obama, but which stretches beyond the normal Democratic base. It makes time for moderate voters, suburban voters, rural voters and even people who voted for the other guy. (To read entire column online, go to http://www.nytimes.com/2008/11/07/opinion/07brooks.html?_r=1&oref=slogin)

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Off to a Big Celebration

For Cullen's great-grandpa!

Here's a photo from the last time they were together:


Last time, Cullen worked the crowd. This time there will be an even bigger crowd... Who knows what could happen?

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

Special Election Day Coverage

I've followed this election for over a year. I remember thinking back then, Whoever wins the Democratic nomination will win the presidency - so I better pay attention while it still matters. Well, the election turned out to be more volatile, and more interesting, than that. At least for a while.

Reflecting on the events of the past two years (!), here is my list of biggest losers and biggest winners of the election process so far. Some of this may seem counterintuitive, but this is all from my personal point of view.

Biggest Losers

#1. The Media. They were certain that today we would be deciding between Rudy Guiliani and Hillary Clinton. They declared McCain's candidacy dead, and counted Mike Huckabee out too; yet they were the two Republicans remaining until, obviously, McCain sealed it up. Concerning both Republicans and Democrats, they wrongly predicted various state primaries - especially early ones.

#2. The New York Times. They deserve a special place among the media losers. I had always known their coverage was disbalanced, but this year they stopped even trying to appear fair minded. Appearing more like a tabloid than an esteemed elder statesman, the NYT basically launched a get-out-the-vote campaign for the left.

#3. Meet the Press. Tim Russert died earlier this year, and was replaced by Tom Brokaw. Tim Russert interviewed in a way that was extremely fair but tough, and he enjoyed life to boot. Regarding Tom Brokaw, see #2, above.

#4. Mitt Romney. My greatest concern was that this man not receive the Republican Party's nomination. Fortunately, he didn't. Even though he had all the money - which was easy prey for incorrect media assumptions (see #1, above) - people just didn't like him. If he wasn't fake, he did a good job pretending to be.

#5. The Democrats. I've always been told that Republicans house the racists in this country, that the Democrats are concerned about minorities. But the primaries proved that there is plenty of racism in the Democratic Party. The Clintons (also big losers in all this) tried to capitalize on it, to their shame. ("Saturday Night Live" was surprisingly one of the media outlets that covered this aspect.)

#6. Conservative Talk Radio. Rush Limbaugh and a host of others hated McCain, before McCain became the functional savior. Now it's all about hating Barack Obama and fearing his policies. Some of his policies are to be feared, I fear, especially concerning human rights issues. But you know, you gotta do better than this guys (and ladies)...

#7. Priorities. We really don't need a 2-year presidential campaign. Do we realize how bad this is for the country? Not only will politics completely destroy policy, if it hasn't already, but more than ever we are fed the lie that the highest office is the highest power. No -- there is a God who created the universe who deserves higher praise, greater trust, and ultimate allegiance.

Biggest Winners

#1. John McCain. He could lose in a landslide today. But who would have thought that a Republican could have ever been this competitive? Had the major news outlets treated him and his opponent on equal terms, he might have even pulled this off. I'm certain he wouldn't have gone as negative if the campaign hadn't been "about" Obama, but I must admit - that's one aspect of this campaign that's been disappointing.

#2. Sarah Palin. Apart from choosing her, McCain could not have generated the energy he needed this fall. So I for one don't buy the bad rap she's getting now, as being a drain on the ticket. Who should McCain have chosen? Some experienced person, who happened to be male? Palin has some serious deficits, some of which she shares with her rivals anway. But as a pro-life woman in high office, which means a woman in high office who upholds basic human rights, she is a force to be reckoned with.

#3. A Few Good Men (and women). Last night I saw the most intelligent interview yet concerning the election. It made me realize how few there are. The interview was with David Brooks of the New York Times. Yes, the NYT needs to be forever discredited and dismantled, but that's for their reporting: they do have a few good columnists. A great reason to watch the Jim Lehrer News Hour on PBS, the other reason being Jim Lehrer. A few, very few, others have been helpful as well. I appreciate 'em when I find 'em.

#4. The Shomos. Just as the primaries were heating up, Cullen James Shomo was born - on August 17, 2007.

#5. God. God is the one who allows men and women to rise or fall. Sometimes it's for our blessing, sometimes it's for our chastening, sometimes it's to reveal our hearts. We rarely know on election day. But he has his way.

Friday, October 31, 2008

Shadow Ops

I highly recommend having only one blog. Not two. Not three. And I speak from experience.


Nevertheless, I do write on our church blog, over here. At this point, I'm unsure whether to import those same posts onto this site or not; for now, they are separate--rogue posts, as far as this site is concerned.

But anyway, I wanted to draw your attention to them because I'm going to try to enliven that site again (even as the church website is slowly being recreated) and will perhaps post more often. Keep an eye out for new posts listed under "Pastor Shomo" on the blogroll.

For those concerned about Smarty, we allow her to blog whenever something interesting happens in her life.

Sunday, October 26, 2008

The Shadow Knows

Here's a little online "Rorschach Test" for you. What do you see in the image below?



Here's what I see:



But that's just me...

Sunday, October 19, 2008

Some recent photos

I've been busy with the house and haven't posted in awhile, so thought I would put up some photos.

Cullen with Frog. More appropriate would be a photo of Cullen with Dog. Frog is seemingly a poor substitute for Dog, but works in a pinch. (Reality: Cullen cannot go to sleep without Dog...we have created a monster and need to find a second Dog asap, should something unfortunate ever happen to the original.)

Cullen has recently become very interested in books! (We were starting to worry about him!)

Favorite toys, Farmer Tad and the basket ball hoop.

These are from today, right before we went to the park. Too bad Cullen wasn't in the picture-taking mood. Still kind of cute.
He did a little better for dad.

And in case you want to know what the dogs have been up to....they had a nice run at the little neighborhood park today. (The jungle gym was Ken's idea.)
The End!